Thursday, December 18, 2008

It hurts!!

Well, well, well...Its been a while (AGAIN!!) that I've updated...Seems like there's a lot of sad things that happened even thou is like wut, 13days to a new year? A friend said, look at things the positive way...Have u ever felt like once u r confident that things will get better, ur hope comes crashing down? Thats wut I felt rite now...Its been 3days that Ive suffered...Then when I tot that things will be better today, It got worst...Who I am friends with, who I go out with, it doesn't concern u..Pls jus pls...Try to respect ppl's life...Control ur language n control ur mouth especially...We r human too, with feeling...

Sigh, wut is love? Nobody can actually give a real answer to wut is love...Love is sweet or Love is suffering? Perhaps both? It hurts to c that someone u cared so much, don really care of ur existence...Sms halfway, stop abruptly...How would u feel? My friend quoted this to me.. "Its okie if u dont love me, but u can't stop me from loving u"....

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

1stly don hurt...yup think it posistive way..ur life will be getting better.
2nd love??yup..love is a deep knowledge ..hm...sometime really is like tat..so wat to do? try remember those happy n sweet time like tat mayb will feel better.(hehe..yup..sometime will getting better..but sometime will getting worst n suffer..)o mayb try no think so much then will getting much more better? ( i oso can understand said easy but wan action it's tough)so jus gambateh n try ur best~~
lastly wish u happy everyday n happiness 4ever~~

Ju said...

Thanks Candy...Really touched my heart... :D

eric10234 said...

Hey Ju,

It is true that we should look at the positive side of things. It is also true that no one can say what really is love. It is also true that what you do with your friends doesn't concern him.

But looking on the positive side can be a little hard at times when you feel like the whole world is against you. Also, while no one can say what really is love, everyone has their own definitions of love and if we listen to their point and argument, at times we may believe that their point is valid and that in turn becomes a part of our definition of love. Lastly, what you do surely doesn't concern him unless he was just asking out of concern (which I doubt in this case).

Having said all that, you may think I'm confusing you even more. Hehe. Well, those were just food for thoughts. What I really want to say is this:

If a person doesn't respect you, they probably don't deserve much respect in turn. Love is many things, both good and bad. Love can hurt, love can heal, love can be a miracle, love can kill. It is not about what you do about love or what you think about it. It is how you show it. We live, we learn, we love. It is an ongoing process of life.

Cry it out if you need. Yell, scream, shout and feel better. Then slowly, quietly, steadily, pick yourself back up and go on. Yes, there will be more potholes on the road of life. But to see a flower on the road every once in a while is worth the trouble of falling into the potholes and getting out again. That's what I think.

Cheer up Ju. Talk to me if you need to. Okay?